After Sex

After sex: Once finally it has taken that step of getting to bed, come a number of questions and concerns about what will happen then. People tend to worry too much about the attitude and actions taken after the end of the first sexual encounter with a partner, or even harder, when a relationship with the other person is not shared.

After a spectacular evening with an exquisite end, it is inevitable to think a thousand things. Would you be loved? Did you feel chemistry? Can I call tomorrow? Am I going now? ¿Kiss, hug, I mean? What do I do!?

When intimate encounters now number more than two, no problem will arise later on that, but for the first, is always common to invade us uncertainty.

This is especially true when you have expectations beyond sex and is expected to achieve a more serious relationship.

Tips after sex

There is no manual that can fit in your pocket that tells us to do after sex, although it would be ideal that exist.

You really need to know a little about the other person and be clear about the relationship between the two. However, we show you a list of tips that will surely be of great use for the following times that first intimate encounter.

1. The first thing to remember is that few things are perfect in life, the important thing is to stay relaxed and avoid thinking that you would have liked more. This does not imply that the time can be unforgettable, as long as both keep the passion and if you notice that this is costing a little more than you thought, put on your side and try to fan the spark.

2. Be yourself, live the moment. Be confident in yourself (a) and dare to enjoy the sexual encounter much.

Do not be overcome by feelings, remember, the initial fascination is very misleading

3. Important! After sex, please avoid uncomfortable questions and cuestionantes. This can spoil the magic of the moment.

4. If after sex also spent the night together, the next morning will feel a bit of anxiety, but do not project that feeling. On the contrary, it tries to be very natural and always cheerful show

5. Try to keep a key approach. That is, neither too close nor too far.After sex, if you stay away, it will seem that you have no interest or you did not like the experience, if you get too will be very cloying (o) and give the image you want to smother your partner. It is normal that one is more affectionate than the other, the idea is to know how to measure the distance and closeness.

6. Do not interpret his movements. Although it may seem inevitable after the first sexual time , it is best not to try to figure out what he or she means. What happens is that you take some things wrong when they are not or else can get false hopes and create walls that are not there.

7. After sex, keep your emotions in check. Do not let these will then play a hard time. Sex is an important part of the relationship of the couple, but after the first time is too short to tell whether or not you ilusionarte.

8. The first time he or she should take it easy and freshness, avoiding tie from the start and most importantly, avoid worrying more after sex, as this may lend extra worry to lose the memory

9. If you find no charm, it is your duty to explain. We do not recommend it immediately after sex, you should wait a couple of days at least, but you should always keep the other person excites you and worse, that make them feel rejected. So measure your words, be sympathetic (a), but always sincere (a).

10. Recalls that sex was made ​​to enjoy. And if you are in love seizes the moment to give yourself to the other person and physically express all the passion and love we feel for her or him fail and continues to demonstrate what you feel after sex.

A bad attitude after sex ruins the good time spent together

Things that should be avoided after sex 

With time and the amount of sexual encounters increases confidence, right. However there are things that are always frowned upon and that after the first time should not be done without excuse. Do not forget that you must always give the best impression and make you feel good to the other person:

Perform a non-sexual activity after sex is always advisable

After sex is not due: 

• Fall asleep.
• Criticize the actions of another
• Boast of having done a good job
• Find excuses to leave immediately
• Get down to work.
• Claim
• Turn on the TV without asking the other if you want to see.
• Go to the kitchen to prepare something to eat without offering.
• Get up and go directly to the bathroom.
• Stay completely silent