Why some women do not reach orgasm?

It is said that, when the pleasure, women are much more physical sensitivity than their peers of the opposite sex. However, often this is not enough to reach orgasm. This condition is known as orgasmic dysfunction is more common than you think. Find out why some women can not have an orgasm, even when excited and manage to enjoy much of the sexual relationship.

It has been said and much has been written aboutmale sexual impotence . What about them?Sexual relations are in pairs and ideally you both enjoy equally. However, as men sometimes have trouble getting ejaculation, women also havetrouble reaching orgasm , even when they are turned.

This is known as orgasmic dysfunction and is more common than you think, just that often because of embarrassment or prejudice, do not talk about it. If you can hardly believe I have more information to help you understand that you're not the only one with doubts and problems when it comes to intimacy with that person you love so attracts or with a partner whom you love here.

It is estimated that about 66% of women have sexual disorders. Among them, 33% have lack of desire, 20% no pleasure during sexual contact, 15% have pain during vaginal penetration between 18 and 48% have trouble getting aroused, the costs reach 46% climax and between 15 and 24% fail to reach orgasm.

All these problems can have different causes, since the behavior and sexual response are dependent on a relationship between the environment, fitness and health and other psychological factors is not always easy. In particular, as women with inability to achieve orgasm or orgasmic dysfunction they do feel pleasure and achieve aroused, it is considered that there are factors beyond the physical that affect the hour of pleasure. Remember that sex is much more than a physical issue and possibly your partner fails to meet your needs at different levels, not just sexual.

Therefore, communication with your partner about your desires is very important and is the first step to solve the problem. Having a comprehensive partner and willing to work is helpful in this task.Often, so you can communicate better and identify and express your desires, psychological therapy can also help.

Meanwhile, there are other reasons that can undermine your pleasure, many of which relate to everyday emotional situations. For instance:

• Being in a situation of stress.
• Having problems with your partner or boredom and monotony in sexual activity.
• Shy about asking for whatever type of stimulation.
• Having had a traumatic sexual experience .
• Growing up in a family with many prejudices about sex.
• Have low self-esteem or problems with your physical image.
• Have fear of getting pregnant or becoming infected with a sexually transmitted disease (STD).
• Having anxiety disorders or being depressed .

Similarly, you can also have a physical problem that affects your sexuality, and suffer disorders or hormonal changes (due to menopause or chronic illness, for example) or have a medical condition that affects the pelvis (such as multiple sclerosis, neuropathy diabetes or spinal cord injury).

Finally, when it comes to pleasure, some substances and medicines do not help to achieve orgasm.In the case of alcohol, some drugs for treating hypertension, some pain medications (painkillers), some antidepressants and some anti-psychotic, among others. No suspendas none without consulting your doctor first.

The good news is that there are many things you can do to improve your sex life. If you think the reason is physical, talk to your doctor without penalty to advise you. If it's not a physical thing, do not be ashamed to ask for psychological help from a qualified professional. Note that when sex is no normal or abnormal. The important thing is what you enjoy, and no rules.

You yourself must find out what you want and what are the things you love, and if you have trouble reaching them or not. Some women do not have orgasms excited, but that they do not care or is a problem for them.

However, beware of resignation. One thing is you do not mind not achieve orgasm and quite another is that habit, fear or whatever reason end up resigning to a situation that is not what you really want.

To find out, you can start thinking about a very simple question but it can be very difficult to answer: What does sex in your life ?, is related to the image you have of yourself, it is an expression of love and a way to feel loved and accepted, makes you feel powerful or have to do with power relations?Again, what does sex mean to you?

You see, the answer may be as wide and varied as each woman. The important thing is that, in principle, discover what your relationship to sex and pleasure. Then, if you have a partner, it is equally important that you involve yourself and do part of the solution. After all, as already mentioned, sex is something that is shared between two and it is important that both enjoy: give pleasure to another is also a way to enjoy. Into action right now so you can fully enjoy your relationship on the sexual plane.